Metaphorically – yeah. It’s four. We are shaped by a society that teaches us that rejections are somehow all our fault. That, if we were only good enough, we would never be rejected, never fail. So not true. We fail tests, we fail our parents, our spouses and kids, our bosses – we fail to get medical treatment. We fail to get our films produced, to get our novel published, to get our songs played and our poems put on subway cars. We fail. But we don’t. That’s the thing. What